Relationship

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• In your partner’s shadow

  28 Jun. 2018

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  In marriage, you sometimes find that one outshines the other; however, it is never acceptable to purposely live in the shadow of your spouse. (Not having a voice or identity of your own). When you belittle your spouse – or even yourself, the relationship becomes unbalanced. The belittled person feels ignored, inferior and of no […]

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• The Gap in a Relationship

  19 Mar. 2018

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  Nature does not allow the existence of a gap. Therefore, when a couple becomes distant from one another, soon something or someone else moves in to fill that gap. The husband goes to the bar or finds more work to do. The wife invests everything in the life of her child or her education… getting […]

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• External Support to the Marriage

  03 Mar. 2018

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  Every marriage can benefit from the support of others – when they are a GOOD influence and cheer for the success of the couple. Avoid being associated with biased people who always take sides and convey the idea of “You poor thing, you’ve married a very bad person.” (Many cases of cheating start like this, […]

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• CAUSE and EFFECT in a relationship

  24 Feb. 2018

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  CAUSE AND EFFECT is a law that governs all existence. Nothing comes from nothing. Everything comes from something. It is no different in regard to love life problems. In order to solve them definitively, one must understand their causes – or roots. How to discover the true roots that feed jealousy, cheating, fights, coldness, failure […]

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• Why do many marriages grow cold?

  24 Feb. 2018

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  Many things compete for our attention and affection. Relatives, children, work, friends, hobbies, dreams, entertainment… The spouse is not the only one. Therefore, you cannot assume that the fire of passion that initially united you both will always be burning by itself. Many things and people will come in between you, and if you allow […]

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• For those who want the partner back

  13 Feb. 2018

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  The reason why many people cannot change for more than two weeks, and quickly go back to their old problems that caused the break-up, is because the MOTIVATION to change is wrong. While you make an effort to change only to have your partner back, as soon as you do, your motivation will finish and […]

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• When the one you love disappoints you

  07 Dec. 2017

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    When we love someone, we remind ourselves of all of the qualities that make us feel happy and blessed to have them by our side. Their beauty, personality, character, the way they talk, how they touch us… We forget that this same person is not perfect and sooner or later will disappoint us. Guaranteed. […]

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• When a letter fills your heart with joy

  07 Dec. 2017

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      I received the letter below from Maggie. She lives in England and I don’t know her. She received a copy of the “Bulletproof Marriage” book as a gift from one of our students who is spreading intelligent love: === My name is Maggie, my husband’s name is Colin. We have on being married […]

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• Physical and Emotional Infidelity

  07 Dec. 2017

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    PHYSICAL INFIDELITY happens when you sexually engage with another person; but there’s also EMOTIONAL INFIDELITY, which happens when you let your heart be led by feelings and fantasies about other people. You take from your partner what is exclusively theirs and give it to someone else. This is why Jesus warned us that just […]

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• The partner who lies

  04 Oct. 2017

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  NO RELATIONSHIP can withstand lies. Sometimes the liar does it out of fear. Fear is a great generator of lies. Any lie is a character flaw, but fear makes it even worse. Therefore, to stop lying, the partner must first confront their fears and overcome them. The problem is that many couples do not cultivate […]

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