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Well, well, well

  My wife posted this. I found it very interesting and decided to share it with you.  One of the things I like most is to talk about my faith, but I don’t always talk about it directly. Every time I speak about love, I speak about my faith. Every time I speak about women […]

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What you can learn from a vacuum cleaner

  Allow me to make an observation of a law of nature which has a profound life lesson. According to the definitions that chemistry and physics give, “a vacuum is the absence of matter in a certain region of space.” When everything is removed from an area so literally nothing exists there, not even air, […]

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What principles and values do you live by?

  Everyone lives by certain principles and values. Whether good, bad, strange, repulsive – these values and principles are present and everyone lives by the ones they choose for themselves. Essentially, principles and values are beliefs which guide our decisions as well as influence how we view the world. From the time we’re born, these […]

IntelliMen Challenge #48

  Men. Intelligent. ™ © 2013   Challenge #48 Don’t start before completing Challenge #47. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Get revenge on the evil that made you suffer by doing what’s good. Explanation: Few people know why I decided to take on the challenge of helping couples bullet-proof […]

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Music: the good and the bad

  Music can be good or bad for us. For example, studies have shown that certain types of classical or instrumental music have therapeutic effects. When you’re doing physical exercise, which requires more strength or a faster pace, music with a fast rhythm can motivate you to prolong the exercise or give you more resistance […]

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I’m over here saving the planet and she wants to talk!

  That’s how a husband expressed his indignation recently in one of our Love School programs. He was referring to the times he would spend in front of the TV playing video games, while his wife asked for attention. He thought her absurd for interrupting him in the middle of “saving the planet,” — an […]

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Overcoming negative emotions

  Bad feelings are like a fever. You literally feel the effects in your body, they impede you from behaving normally, and you can’t wait until they pass. The difference, however, is that you don’t really have control over a fever, but you have control over your feelings. Let’s say you’re angry, sad, or discouraged. […]

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Beating jealousy and insecurity

  Cynthia wrote us: I started a new relationship and I find myself often jealous. He has female friends in dating websites and he calls ex-girlfriends. I was cheated on once before and I feel he’ll do the same thing. I need to trust in him more, but I haven’t been able to. You need […]

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Communication problem

One of people’s greatest problems is a deficiency in communication. They’re not able to (unless they gather all their strength) comprehend what the person next to them is saying, and they fail to express their thoughts adequately. Without even trying, they communicate ignorance, arrogance, stupidity and other unpleasant traits. They break friendships. They create strife, […]

IntelliMen Challenge #47

  Men. Intelligent. ™ © 2013   Challenge #47 Don’t start before completing Challenge #46. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge:  Porn-proof yourself by block any and all access to it. Explanation: Last week’s challenge taught us that pornography is kryptonite for men. Young men, adult men, elderly men, married or single, all have […]