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At least be useless

I wasn’t the one who said it: In the same way, you, when you have done all you were ordered to do, say: We are useless servants; we have only done what we were supposed to do. Luke 17.10 According to the Lord Jesus, the definition of useless is not someone who is idle or […]

IntelliMen Challenge #22

  Men. Intelligent.™   Challenge #22 Don’t start before completing Challenge #21. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Identify a bad habit and eliminate it. Explanation: A man is made of habits. More than 90% of what we do every day is out of habit. Almost everything […]

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Breaking habits: enablers and triggers

There are two things you have to overcome in order to break a bad habit. The first one is the laziness to think. A habit is an activity that your brain has assimilated and programmed itself to do every time it’s triggered. You do it without even thinking anymore. That’s why you have to take […]

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Outsmarting your habit

  You already know, the majority of things that you do daily consist of habits. From the side of the bed you sleep on, to the time you wake up, or what you do from the time you wake up, the food you eat, the route to work, your routine at work and dozens of […]

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You’re even more beautiful in person

  “You’re even more beautiful in person!” You haven’t seen anything… You have to learn to see the beauty beyond your partner’s skin. Many people who meet my wife say, “You’re even more beautiful in person than on TV!” I know they’re referring to Cristiane’s physical beauty, besides her smile and graciousness. But they don’t […]

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You’re not as independent as you think

  We shape ourselves according to the role models or standards we esteem. On the cover of magazines, women are presented with a standard of beauty. Advertising, in all its forms, announces, the “best,” “ideal,” “top-of-the-line,” “new” product, service or lifestyle for people to adopt. Even the Bible presents men and women as role models […]

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Do the little things count?

  For this episode, Love Talk looks at the little things we take for granted in our relationships. The words we never say because we assume our partners don’t need to hear them because they know how we feel. They are joined by Nigel and Jenny Heath, marriage coaches, that have written a book called […]

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Why simplify if you can complicate?

I believe it’s more than proven, tested and understood that marriage is not easy. Getting married is easy; remaining married is not so easy. In some places, the rate of failure is 60%. So, I don’t have to argue my point. The numerous amount of divorces, and couples who remain unhappily married, confirm my thesis. […]

IntelliMen Challenge #21

Men. Intelligent.™   Challenge #21 Don’t start before completing Challenge #20 If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Begin every day this week the way King David did. Explanation: Revered by many even today, King David left numerous examples of how to be an intelligent and successful man […]

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Audacity for what’s evil

  Days ago a woman was raped inside a moving bus in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil. The abuse lasted 40 minutes as the animal terrorized the passengers and motorist, threatening to kill them in case someone did anything or she didn’t submit to his demands. There seems to be no limit to evil. Every day, […]