NEVER base your life on a popular saying

  “A mother’s love is the only true love.” IS THAT REALLY TRUE? Then, try saying this to children who’ve been abandoned and are now living on the streets, to daughters who have been sold into prostitution, or to children who suffer abuse with their mothers’ consent. No, I don’t mean to pick on mothers […]


I’m not happy with myself

  When you’re not happy with yourself, there’s an anguish that constantly blames everything that’s wrong in the world for your unhappiness. It’s people who don’t understand you. It’s things that are not as they should be. It’s injustice that makes you angry… Too many wrong things! A feeling of helplessness takes over; sheer anguish. […]


Hatred, grudge, and forgiveness

  Hatred is a form of cancer that slowly kills its victim. The healing is free and simple: forgiveness. Yet, the patient wrongly thinks that revenge is the cure. Forgiveness is simple. Note that I didn’t say it’s easy. It is simple because it only depends on one’s decision. Deciding to forgive is not complicated […]


A winner’s secret

  We cannot live by encouragement or discouragement. Living this way results in a life of ups and downs—more downs than ups, actually. How many times have you felt like not getting out of bed in the morning to go to work or school but you did? At that moment, you overcame the feeling of […]

IntelliMen 2.0 – Challenge #5

  Men. Intelligent. ™ © 2016 Challenge #5 Do this only after completing Challenge #4 This is IntelliMen 2.0. If you want to join the Project and get the best results, begin with the 53 Challenges. Challenge: Create your own challenge. Explanation: No one knows your limitations, fears and need to grow better than yourself. […]


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Does your past condemn you?

  There’s no saint without a past and no sinner without a future. People who act as if they’ve never been wrong or were incapable of making mistakes are worse than sinners. To at least be considered a sinner, you’d first need to acknowledge your mistakes and the truth about yourself. People who’ve made a […]


How God deals with the proud

  When we fail, our pride supports us; when we succeed, it betrays us. – Charles Caleb Colton Pride. Even the word itself sounds as though it were better than others. It’s because of pride that we make mistakes, for we refuse to consult someone who knows more than us. It’s because of pride that […]


How to overcome insecurity

  Dive deep into sincerity and answer these questions: Do you almost instantly feel jealous when someone has a good idea and people around you like it? Do you see others as a threat to the position you hold? Do you usually belittle someone else’s skill because you are afraid they could grow more than […]


Perfect Planning Prevents Pathetic Performance

  I found out about this “5P rule” a couple years ago. It makes a lot of sense: How many times has your performance been below expectations simply because there was no proper planning, or because you assumed that others would do what they were supposed to do (but didn’t) and they let you down? […]