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A couple’s false sense of well-being – pay attention to these 8 signs

  The old saying, “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it,” only applies until something breaks. No sports coach with the minimum level of competence will believe this quote. They know that waiting until their team starts losing to start making changes is a recipe for disaster. The truth is that this saying is for […]

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Letting go of people who separate us from love

  This month in the Love Therapy we’ve been talking about the importance of letting go of ideas, people and things that hurt our love life. Attachment to these things stops the flow of true love in our lives. It’s inherent to humans to get attached to things. We’re like glue: we easily stick to […]

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DOMINION: the first UCKG event only for MEN

For the first time ever, men all over the UK will come together for the “DOMINION” event. Here are 7 reasons why you should set aside the time on the evening of April 26th to attend this event: The event’s theme – God created the man to have dominion, not to be dominated by anything. […]

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Hitting rock bottom and attentive ears.

Their judges are overthrown by the sides of the cliff, and they hear my words, for they are sweet. – Psalm 141:6 Part 6 of 7 – click here for part  1 The “judges” in this Scripture are not righteous, but evil; those who use their authority and power to do evil. The psalmist confidently says: “they are […]

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Rebuke me, please

Part 4 of 7 – click here for part I Part 3 of 7 Part 2 of 7 Let the righteous strike me; it shall be a kindness. And let him rebuke me; it shall be as excellent oil; let my head not refuse it. — Psalm 141:5 Who likes to be rebuked? I don’t […]

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A dangerous combination

Part 3 of 7 – click here for part I Part 2 of 7 Do not incline my heart to any evil thing, to practice wicked works With men who work iniquity; and do not let me eat of their delicacies. – Psalm 141:4 Combine these two things: your heart + bad company, and what […]

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Policing your words

    “Set a guard, O LORD, over my mouth; keep watch over the door of my lips.” — Psalm 141.3 Woe to our tongue! Therein lies the power to conquer a heart but also to break it. The right word can guarantee a second date to the potential suitor. The wrong word can mean […]

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Self-help and help from above

Lord, I cry out to You; Make haste to me! Give ear to my voice when I cry out to You. Let my prayer be set before You as incense, the lifting up of my hands as the evening sacrifice. – Psalm 141:1-2 I believe in both: helping yourself and help from above. Heaven only […]

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8 tips to end narrow-minded thinking

  Narrow-minded people don’t like new ideas; they cling desperately to their own way of thinking. They think they’re always right and have no qualms about attacking anyone who contradicts them. They’re almost always outdated — stuck in time. They refuse to better themselves and refuse to consider other people’s point of view. In some […]

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Labelled for life. What now?

  There was a city with very strict laws. When anyone committed a crime they would receive the normal punishment, but in addition a mark would be placed on their foreheads so that everyone would know the kind of crime that person had committed. Two brothers were arrested for murder and gang-related activities, and had […]